DEVOTION, MONDAY, OCTOBER 29, 2012
Obedience in Marriage
BY
BAYLESS CONLEY
Ephesians
5:22-24 gives an important area of obedience. While this
is not popular in our society today, it is biblical, but is also often
misunderstood.
Wives, submit to your own husbands, as to the
Lord. For the husband is head of the wife, as also Christ is head of the
church; and He is the Savior of the body. Therefore, just as the church
is subject to Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in everything.
It is important to make clear that before God there
is an absolute equality between men and women, between husbands and
wives. In fact, this passage does not say, "Women submit to
men." It is purely a domestic situation.
Even with that understanding, the Bible says that
husbands and wives are heirs together of the grace of life. There is an
equality before God between men and women and husband and wife.
What this passage teaches is that God has set up a
system of authority in the home that needs to be
followed, if it is going to be well with us. In fact, this is even a
military term. To submit or to obey means to put yourself in rank under.
Friend, we are in a spiritual warfare, and there are
spiritual forces that have been unleashed against homes and against marriages
that would love to tear marriages apart.
God has designed a way for the home to function, and
that is for the man to take the responsibility of leadership and for the wife
to come under that authority. When a husband truly loves his wife, and
cares for her like Christ does the church, and the wife respects her husband,
things will be well in the home. That couple and that family will be magnets for the
blessings of God.
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